Doing Me | Julia

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Doing Me | Julia

Hello world! Feels like it has been quite some time since I talked to you all. Life been quite great on my side. How has life been treating you all? What have all of you guys been up to lately? More sleeping, going to school, working, eating or gossiping? I suppose the normal people activities right?

I feel like I have been so selfish lately but I totally love it! I love being away from all the craziness of life. I get crazy enough at work that I don’t want to experience more of it at home. My routine lately been just wake up, shower, get ready, go to work, come home, eating while watching my show and get ready for bed to do it all over again the next day. It may seem boring but I feel more relaxed this way. On a day off like today (Wednesday) I blog, sometimes, and I also fill it with show watching, eating, sleeping and some laundry or cleaning. Which is pretty awesome in my opinion.

Recently, before church I went to Starbucks and started filling my taxes but I didn’t finish because service was starting so I had to pack up and run across the street for the service but I am determined to finish it this week! That way I can get the money to add into school fund. I finally applied/registered for school. I should be starting in September as a part-time; for now. I am super excited to be one step closer to doing what I want to do, which is marketing but focus on digital media. It took me a long time to be able to actually tell my dad that I don’t want to do accounting anymore and to my surprise, he took it quite well. Things worked out and my heart feels lighter. I felt like I was one step closer to my 2016 New Year resolution which is simply to love myself more.

In the venture of doing me and achieving my 2016 new years resolution, I joined a Life Group at Epic Church for young professionals. I feel like this would be a great way to meet other people and build connections. I’ve been attending Epic Church for quite some time now and I feel like Life Group is my next step to be a part of Epic community.

I feel like I have probably been out of touch from a lot of people but I really don’t mind it anymore. I used to feel like I was out of loop, not needed and even lonely. However, now I  feel like being away gives me more time to clear my body and mind from all the toxic that was around me and it helps me focus on me more. I feel less stressed, less angrier toward people and more accepting toward others relationship and circumstances. Maybe because I feel much happier these days that it rubs off on how I think and feel about people.

Last night, I had a late night talk with Nanda. I love late night talk when I am off the next day (sorry Nan! I made you stay up late :P). I feel like late night talks are so goofy but you talk and get so much out of it when you finish the conversation. Although, we live across the country from each other, it doesn’t feel like that. The session wasn’t as long as it usually is just because she had to get up at 4am but I felt like we talked about so much.

We talked about relationship, we talked about a toxic human being, we planned a trip (Nanda always ask me to go to SF but since the ticket is always so expensive, we plan to meet in the middle instead) and then we ended the conversation with “hot as balls”, long johns, boxers and holes. Seriously, I have no idea what happened. Our conversation started to serious and ended with us on target website looking at boxers. We were probably too tired from a long work day to concentrate and talk like normal people, nevertheless, it was a fun talk. It was full on insight and laughter.

These days I feel like I appreciate the little things more than I used to. This is probably the effect of growing old. Although, I trust people less and less daily; I have become more accepting toward situations I cannot change. I tend to care less about most people as well. Life is short, I should put a little more effort on me.

That is all for now. Have a great week you guys!


Two ladies set out to conquer the world. Just kidding, none of us are ever that ambitious. We are just two individuals who have known each other for a very long time (more than a decade now) that wanted to venture out to collaborate on a project together. We are “TOOCONFIDENTIALMESS” – too as in 'two' (Jule & Nanda) and too as in well, too. Confidential as in, it is our not so little secret to the world and mess as in our perfectly imperfect lives.

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